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Reporting Commands, Requests and Suggestions

Reporting commands, requests, and suggestions requires transforming imperative structures into infinitive constructions that accurately convey the directive nature of the original speech whilst maintaining appropriate levels of politeness and authority. Unlike statements and questions, imperatives in reported speech use infinitive patterns with specific reporting verbs that reflect the tone and intent of the original instruction, request, or suggestion.

The key to successfully reporting imperatives lies in choosing the appropriate reporting verb and structure that accurately reflects the relationship between speakers and the nature of the directive. Commands require different reporting verbs than polite requests, and suggestions need different structures than direct orders. This precision in verb choice ensures that the reported speech maintains the social and communicative context of the original interaction.

Understanding how to report imperatives is essential for professional communication, academic writing, legal documentation, and everyday situations where we need to relay instructions, requests, or advice that others have given. The ability to accurately report different types of directives whilst maintaining their original intent and level of formality is crucial for effective communication and clear documentation of interactions.

Mastering reported commands, requests, and suggestions will enhance your ability to write meeting minutes, document conversations, relay instructions accurately, and communicate complex directive interactions in both formal and informal contexts. This skill is particularly valuable for management communication, training documentation, legal reporting, and any situation where precise communication of directives and recommendations is essential for clarity and accountability.

Basic Structures for Reporting Imperatives

Fundamental Patterns

Basic Command Structure:

told/asked + person + to + infinitive

Direct: "Close the door."

Reported: She told me to close the door.

Direct: "Please help me."

Reported: He asked me to help him.

Negative Commands:

told/asked + person + not to + infinitive

Direct: "Don't be late."

Reported: She told me not to be late.

Direct: "Please don't worry."

Reported: He asked me not to worry.

Key Points:

  • Use "told" for commands and direct instructions
  • Use "asked" for polite requests
  • Always include the person who received the instruction
  • Use infinitive structure (to + base verb)
  • Place "not" before "to" for negative instructions

Reporting Verbs for Different Types of Instructions

Commands & Orders:

  • told - direct instruction
  • ordered - authoritative command
  • commanded - formal/military
  • instructed - formal direction
  • demanded - forceful insistence

Requests & Appeals:

  • asked - polite request
  • requested - formal asking
  • begged - desperate appeal
  • pleaded - urgent request
  • invited - welcoming request

Advice & Suggestions:

  • advised - professional guidance
  • suggested - mild recommendation
  • recommended - strong advice
  • urged - strong encouragement
  • warned - cautionary advice

Alternative Reporting Structures

Infinitive Structures:

Standard: She told me to wait here.

Formal: She instructed me to wait here.

Polite: She asked me to wait here.

Strong: She ordered me to wait here.

That-clause Structures:

Suggestion: She suggested that I should wait.

Recommendation: She recommended that I wait.

Insistence: She insisted that I wait.

Demand: She demanded that I wait.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

She said me to close the door.

She told me to close the door.

Use 'told' or 'asked', not 'said' for reporting commands

He told to me be quiet.

He told me to be quiet.

Object pronoun comes before 'to', not after 'told'

She asked me that I help her.

She asked me to help her.

Use infinitive structure, not 'that' clause for commands/requests

He told me don't go there.

He told me not to go there.

Use 'not to' for negative commands, not 'don't'

They suggested me to try it.

They suggested that I try it. / They suggested trying it.

'Suggest' doesn't take person + infinitive structure

Reporting Verbs by Strength and Formality

StrengthInformalNeutralFormal
Weak/Politeasked, suggestedrequested, invitedrequested, proposed
Mediumtold, advisedinstructed, recommendeddirected, specified
Strongordered, demandedcommanded, requiredmandated, decreed
Specialbegged, pleadedwarned, threatenedcautioned, admonished

Special Patterns and Exceptions

Verbs with Different Structures:

suggest: suggested trying / suggested that I try

recommend: recommended seeing / recommended that I see

insist: insisted on going / insisted that I go

forbid: forbade me to go / forbade going

Let/Make in Reported Speech:

"Let me help": → offered to help

"Let's go": → suggested going

"Make sure you...": → told me to make sure

"Don't make me...": → asked me not to make him

Practice Guidelines

Steps for Reporting Commands:

  1. Identify the type: Command, request, suggestion, warning, etc.
  2. Choose appropriate reporting verb: Consider politeness and authority level
  3. Include the recipient: Always mention who received the instruction
  4. Use infinitive structure: Convert imperative to "to + base verb"
  5. Handle negatives correctly: Use "not to" for negative commands
  6. Adjust time/place references: Change according to reported speech rules
  7. Check for completeness: Ensure all elements of the original are included
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